This topic is very difficult for parents and really anyone having to share the words “I have cancer”
So how do we do it? It hurts us just saying the words out loud, just as much as it does them. That makes it real! There’s never a right or wrong way to tell someone you have cancer but maybe this can help you decide what’s best for you to share with those you love.
When it comes to telling your kids about a parent’s cancer diagnosis, it’s important to be open and honest with them. Choosing a calm and comfortable setting, while using simple language they can understand when you tell them and allowing them to ask questions.
It’s important for kids to have a healthy way to express their emotions. Encourage them to talk about how they’re feeling and listen without judgment. Validate their emotions and let them know that it’s okay to feel sad, angry, or scared. Offer reassurance and support. Encourage them to find healthy ways to cope, such as exercise, art, or spending time with friends.
Consider seeking professional help if they’re struggling to manage their emotions.
Let them know that it’s okay to feel scared or worried, and reassure them that you’ll all get through it together.
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